Watching your life go down the drain
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As I sat in court today, a young man came up for sentencing. I hate watching these sentencings, because they’re sad affairs all around. The young man, I say young man because he couldn’t have been more than 20, was pleading guilty to some serious offense. I don’t know what it is that he is alleged to have done, but there he was.
As the judge went through the canvass, taking special care to make sure he understood the parameters of the plea bargain (it was a right to argue), it struck me that this young fellow was going to see nothing but the inside of a prison for the next 15 years. 15 years just gone, finished, written in stone. I can’t imagine being in his position (nor do I ever want to be), knowing that one act you committed, one moment of weakness, has resulted in your being banished out of sight and out of mind for the next 15 years. The world will move on by and you’ll be left there, stuck in a vacuum. The things you will not see, the air that you will not breathe, the freedom that you have squandered away. Is there regret? Is there pain? Is there sadness? It broke my heart.
Sure enough, as he walked away, a tear rolled down his cheek.
It’s just sad.
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“A moment of weakness”? I’m sure many victims of criminals who get far less than 15 years would not characterize the criminal’s acts as a “moment of weakness”.
I wonder if you shed a tear for the victim of a crime where you have a factually guilty client who gets off. Probably not. Yet that person didn’t do anything to deserve his or her fate.
JFC man. Do you ever get off your soapbox?
Do you?
[quote comment="7957"]Do you?[/quote]
First of all, you missed the point of the post. Second, you don’t have to keep pushing your agenda - we all know that you hate all defendants. Third, show some compassion. Fourth, you missed the point of the post.
Gideon, thanks for taking a moment to step back from all of the intriguing questions of law, public policy, and litigation strategy with which we are so often consumed to recognize the humanity of the defendant.
I don’t think I missed the point of the post. I get it–it sucks that we have to lock kids up for long stretches. I wish we didn’t. What I was pointing out was your euphemization of the transgressions of criminals.
I don’t really hate all defendants, either. I just think that society should be protected more than you, and I reserve more of my sympathy for crime victims.
As for compassion, I feel sorry for this guy, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t think he should go to jail. I hope he turns his life around, just like I hope Kelly and Pollitt turn theirs around.
Anyway, have you figured out a way around the langauge in Cronic?
I have been sniffing around your site for the last few weeks..In a kind of anxious quiet desperation just wanting,no, needing to contribute some of my insight views & experiences from my perspective on many of the 1st hand encounters , dealings & interaction I had with & on many of your subjects (Peeler,Southbury Hysteria, Prison reform, overcrowding,Cognitive rehab etc. I have been sitting on the bench, wanting to get in the game.. My life on hold as I awaited the state retirement board to approve my duty related disability retirement from the physical & emotional injuries of almost 20 years in the state criminal justice system. & a few more in various public safety roles I admire your honesty, integrity & envy your sense of self…I lost mine along the way years of working in a system that is a breeding ground of apathy & contempt! In conjunction with seeing many a man circling that drain..Don’t get me wrong there have been times when I held down the flusher..But the fact remains,the one thing I learned is everyone is one bad day away!!
[quote comment="7963"]Gideon, thanks for taking a moment to step back from all of the intriguing questions of law, public policy, and litigation strategy with which we are so often consumed to recognize the humanity of the defendant.[/quote]
I concur.
“An eye for an eye” may be the stand-by justification for all punishment, but the taking of an offender’s eye does not restore sight to the victim. Only when we understand the cost of both blindings will we truly look at ways to prevent the first victim’s eye from being lost.
Gid, it looks like you tapped into some pretty strong feelings on this one. Good job. While we all feel for the victims of crime, we can’t undo what has happened by causing more and more harm.
There are some truly heinous people out there. But most are just one bad day away. Sympathy for the victim doesn’t preclude recognizing that these are all people, even the defendants.
I, too, have been lurking on your sight - and appreciate your thoughts on the issues we face as defenders.
I have often been struck by how a split second decision, most often a horrible one, changes a young person’s life forever. Yes, we all feel for the crime victim - but they are not the only people deserving of our sympathy. Split second decisions, often made without thought or contemplation, can have horrendous consequences for young people. While we can save for another day the argument whether they should, the point of the post and of the observation was that it does. We should all take pause in that - in our lives and in the lives of our clients.
BEFORE I WORKED FOR THE STATE, I worked E.M.S. INITIALLY IN THE CITY OF WATERBURY I BELIEVE IT WAS CHRISTMAS EVE.1985 I WAS 23 BUT I WAS ALREADY MARRIED W/2 CHILDREN. AS PER S.O.P JUST BEFORE 8PM WE WOULD send a car to stand-by IN FRONT OF THE ST.VINCINT De Paul shelter which was only a block away from our South End station. THIS DUE TO THE FACT THAT THEY DON’T ADMIT ANYONE THAT’S INTOXICATED WHICH OF COURSE HAPPENED NIGHTLY, THUS WE WOULD HAVE TO CUFF & STUFF THE OFFENDING PARTIES & CART THEM OFF TO DETOX.. A LIGHT SNOW BEGAN TO FALL, & A FEELING OF EXILE RATION BEGAN TO KICK IN, JUST AS I TURNED RIGHT TOWARDS THE ALLEY .MY HEART DROPPED AS I SAW A COUPLE WHO COULDN’T HAVE BEEN MUCH OLDER THAN I, TRYING TO MANIPULATE AN OLD PATHMARK SHOPPING CART OVER THE BROKEN CURB, THE MOTHER HOLDING WHAT LOOKED LIKE A LITTLE GIRL TO HER BREAST,OUT OF THE SNOW & A LITTLE BOY SEATED
IN THE CARTS SEAT , GETTING IN LINE FOR THE SHELTER..MY GREAT AUNT TOOK ME IN AND RAISED ME SINCE I WAS 11 & WAS ALWAYS THERE TO HELP ME OVER THOSE LITTLE HURDLES ..I COULDN’T STOP THINKING WHAT JUST A LITTLE BIT OF HELP COULD HAVE MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD TO THOSE KIDS & SO MANY OTHERS IT IS SO HARD WHEN YOU HAVE NOTHING OR NOBODY! AND THE OTHER LESSON I LEARNED WHICH UNFORTUNATELY IS OFTEN THE END RESULT “DESPERATE PEOPLE TAKE DESPERATE ACTIONS”
BUT IT DOESN’T NEGATE THE FACT THAT THEY HAVE TO BE STOPPED!! IT’S JUST TO BAD THAT WE IN AMERICA CAN’TACT UNTILL WE GOT TO REACT!
I wonder how a rape victim would feel about the characterization of her assault as “a moment of weakness” or a “split second decision”. This euphemizing of the wrongness of these decisions is appalling, and telling.
And I notice, Gideon, that you cannot answer the charge that you don’t feel all that bad for a victim that walks away from the courthouse with no justice when a guilty client gets off. Think about how the Pierces felt when their son was murdered and the perp got a scant 9 years. (remember that hate crime–1993, from Yale?) Does that break your heart? No. But you’ll mourn some jerk who got 15 years for doing some crime.
Again, that’s not the point of the post. I’m not sure you understand that, despite your protestations to the contrary.
I’m not going to comment any further. Either you get it or you don’t.
SPO’s energies might be more effectively invested at a one-sided site like www dot all-defendants-are-innocent-angels-and-victims-are-categorically-lucky dot org.
Let’s hope the defendant in this case really deserved the sentence, and that the sentence marked a turning point and the beginning of a time he’ll use constructively. One of my stbx-H’s corporate clients once asked him to defend her son: stbx doesn’t do criminal law, but the client wanted a lawyer who would NOT let the son walk free this time. He referred her elsewhere, but I wonder: is there any way to predict when the time ‘away’ is merited and will be productive?
Regarding Molly B. in Germany on 2 counts
Regarding Molly B. in Germany:
I don’t think it matters what your point is when you euphemize criminal behavior in such a manner.
And, admit it, you feel worse for some criminal paying for his crime than you do for a crime victim cheated out of justice. That’s fine, of course–your opinion.